I know it's none of my business but...

B didn't come out to our friend's going away party after her performance with J. I had a feeling she wouldn't. When it was the same friends birthday and B had her performance with J they went out to the casinos together instead of B coming and celebrating. B still can't make the effort when the girl is moving away across the country and probably won't be back until she gets married here in a year. No, J, who isn't going anywhere, apparently is the more important person to spend time with.

I also don't think it's a coincidence that the BF is out of town right now. The same BF who put a down payment on the hall for their wedding while he's interviewing for a job.

God, I can't wait until she moves. I keep praying that the BF loves the job he interviewed for so that they won't move back here after the wedding. I want her gone, out of my life for good.

Of course that's if she didn't do something completely stupid like cheat on the guy AGAIN w/ J and the BF doesn't find out or dump her ass like he really should.

On the other hand - I could give her the benefit of the doubt. It is possible that she didn't get done until later than she expected and then the BF called, the 3 hour time difference makes that a possibility. Maybe they had a lot to discuss because of his job interview. They are from that state and B owns a condo there, she knows she wants to go back there eventually, but the BF can make more money at his job here (probably the only profession that can boast that in such a crappy economy). By the time she got done talking to him, maybe it was too late to drive out to the party.

Why I can't give her the benefit of the doubt - she didn't call anyone to say she wasn't making it, that she was late, that she couldn't find it, or that it was too far for that hour. Nothing. My guess - J had her so distracted she couldn't find her phone. If only she could find that little voice in her head that tells her what's wrong and right. Not that it matters - she'll just ask Jesus for forgiveness at church on Sunday and go on her merry way.